cmake: add curl library path

Read binary patches (with no binary data)

refspec: do not set empty rhs for fetch refspecs

When creating and printing diffs, deal with binary deltas that have
binary data specially, versus diffs that have a binary file but lack the
actual binary data.

The `PKG_CHECK_MODULES` function searches a pkg-config module and
then proceeds to set various variables containing information on
how to link to the library. In contrast to the `FIND_PACKAGE`
function, the library path set by `PKG_CHECK_MODULES` will not
necessarily contain linking instructions with a complete path to
the library, though. So when a library is not installed in a
standard location, the linker might later fail due to being
unable to locate it.

While we already honor this when configuring libssh2 by adding
`LIBSSH2_LIBRARY_DIRS` to the link directories, we fail to do so
for libcurl, preventing us to build libgit2 on e.g. FreeBSD. Fix
the issue by adding the curl library directory to the linker
search path.

Instead of skipping printing a binary diff when there is no data, skip
printing when we have a status of `UNMODIFIED`.  This is more in-line
with our internal data model and allows us to expand the notion of
binary data.

In the future, there may have no data because the files were unmodified
(there was no data to produce) or it may have no data because there was
no data given to us in a patch.  We want to treat these cases
separately.

patch_generate: only calculate binary diffs if requested

When generating diffs for binary files, we load and decompress
the blobs in order to generate the actual diff, which can be very
costly. While we cannot avoid this for the case when we are
called with the `GIT_DIFF_SHOW_BINARY` flag, we do not have to
load the blobs in the case where this flag is not set, as the
caller is expected to have no interest in the actual content of
binary files.

Fix the issue by only generating a binary diff when the caller is
actually interested in the diff. As libgit2 uses heuristics to
determine that a blob contains binary data by inspecting its size
without loading from the ODB, this saves us quite some time when
diffing in a repository with binary files.