path: refactor utility path functions

Introduce `git_fs_path`, which operates on generic filesystem paths.
`git_path` will be kept for only git-specific path functionality (for
example, checking for `.git` in a path).

Looking up a non-existent object currently always invokes
`git_odb_refresh`. If looking up a large batch of objects, many of which
may legitimately not exist, this will repeatedly refresh the ODB to no
avail.

Add a `git_odb_exists_ext` that accepts flags controlling the ODB
lookup, and add a flag to suppress the refresh. This allows the user to
control if and when they refresh (for instance, refreshing once before
starting the batch).

libgit2 has two distinct requirements that were previously solved by
`git_buf`.  We require:

1. A general purpose string class that provides a number of utility APIs
   for manipulating data (eg, concatenating, truncating, etc).
2. A structure that we can use to return strings to callers that they
   can take ownership of.

By using a single class (`git_buf`) for both of these purposes, we have
confused the API to the point that refactorings are difficult and
reasoning about correctness is also difficult.

Move the utility class `git_buf` to be called `git_str`: this represents
its general purpose, as an internal string buffer class.  The name also
is an homage to Junio Hamano ("gitstr").

The public API remains `git_buf`, and has a much smaller footprint.  It
is generally only used as an "out" param with strict requirements that
follow the documentation.  (Exceptions exist for some legacy APIs to
avoid breaking callers unnecessarily.)

Utility functions exist to convert a user-specified `git_buf` to a
`git_str` so that we can call internal functions, then converting it
back again.

Separate the concerns of the hash functions from the git_oid functions.
The git_oid structure will need to understand either SHA1 or SHA256; the
hash functions should only deal with the appropriate one of these.

This change introduces git_odb_write_multi_pack_index(), which creates a
`multi-pack-index` file from all the `.pack` files that have been loaded
in the ODB.

Fixes: #5399

This adds a `-Wunused-result`-proof `GIT_UNUSED()`, just to demonstrate
that it works. With this, sortedcache.h is now completely
`GIT_WARN_UNUSED_RESULT`-annotated!

Introduce GIT_OPT_SET_ODB_LOOSE_PRIORITY and GIT_OPT_SET_ODB_PACKED_PRIORITY
to allow overriding the default priority values for the default ODB
backends. Libgit2 has historically assumed that most objects for long-
running operations will be packed, therefore GIT_LOOSE_PRIORITY is
set to 1 by default, and GIT_PACKED_PRIORITY to 2.
When a client allows libgit2 to set the default backends, they can
specify an override for the two priority values in order to change
the order in which each ODB backend is accessed.