* Update wrong zip-code

- Added sql/mariadb.h file that should be included first by files in sql
  directory, if sql_plugin.h is not used (sql_plugin.h adds SHOW variables
  that must be done before my_global.h is included)
- Removed a lot of include my_global.h from include files
- Removed include's of some files that my_global.h automatically includes
- Removed duplicated include's of my_sys.h
- Replaced include my_config.h with my_global.h

Creating a CONNECT object on client connect and pass this to the working thread which creates the THD.
Split LOCK_thread_count to different mutexes
Added LOCK_thread_start to syncronize threads
Moved most usage of LOCK_thread_count to dedicated functions
Use next_thread_id() instead of thread_id++

Other things:
- Thread id now starts from 1 instead of 2
- Added cast for thread_id as thread id is now of type my_thread_id
- Made THD->host const (To ensure it's not changed)
- Removed some DBUG_PRINT() about entering/exiting mutex as these was already logged by mutex code
- Fixed that aborted_connects and connection_errors_internal are counted in all cases
- Don't take locks for current_linfo when we set it (not needed as it was 0 before)

backport from 10.0 the fix for:
  MDEV-5756 CMake option to build without thread pool

  Check if the threadpool is available on the system and set HAVE_POOL_OF_THREADS respectively.

Use post_kill_notification in for one_thread_per_connection scheduler, 
the same as already used in threadpool, to reliably wake a thread  stuck in 
read() or in different poll() variations.