Extended the parser for GET DIAGNOSTICS to use ERROR_INDEX to get
warning/error index.
Error information is stored in Sql_condition. So it can be used to
store the index of warning/error too. THD::current_insert_index keeps a
track of count for each row that is processed or going to be inserted in the
table (or first row in case of prepare phase). When an error occurs,
first we need to fetch corrected error index (using correct_error_index())
for an error number. This is needed because in prepare phase, the error
may not be because of rows/values. In such case, correct value of
error_index should be 0. Once correct value if fetched, assign it to
Sql_condition::error_index when the object is created during error/warning.
This error_index variable is returned when ERROR_INDEX is used in
GET DIAGNOSTICS.

The problem is that array binding uses net buffer to read parameters for each
execution while each execiting with RETURNING write in the same buffer.

Solution is to allocate new net buffer to avoid changing buffer we are reading
from.

This allows us to use String::append() without using strlen().

The changes to the ErrConvString class where done by Alexander Barkov

The COM_MULTI did not take off. No connector is using it.
Remove related code from server, and client.
If anything it is a step simplification of already-bloated
dispatch_command(), and related code.

The code did not take into account that:
- U+005C (backslash) can occupy more than mbminlen characters (e.g. in sjis)
- Some character sets do not have a code for U+005C (e.g. swe7)

Adding a new function my_wc_to_printable into MY_CHARSET_HANDLER to
cover all special cases easier.

restore check for client charset_info == NULL, which was previously
removed in MDEV-8844

Now both offset and limit are stored and do not chenged during execution
(offset is decreased during processing in versions before 10.5).

(Big part of this changes made by Monty)