update table->pos_in_table_list during prepare,
just like it's done in normal execution.

otherwise it'll be a dangling pointer

MDEV-10130 Assertion `share->in_trans == 0' failed in storage/maria/ma_close.c
MDEV-10378 Assertion `trn' failed in virtual int ha_maria::start_stmt

The problem was that maria_handler->trn was not properly reset
at commit/rollback and ha_maria::exernal_lock() could get confused
because.

There was some old code in ha_maria::implicit_commit() that tried
to take care of this, but it was not bullet proof.

Fixed by adding list of all tables that is part of the maria transaction to
TRN.

A nice side effect was of the fix is that loops in
ha_maria::implict_commit() got to be much simpler.

Other things:
- Fixed a bug in mysql_admin_table() where argument open_for_modify
  was wrongly reset for the next table in the chain
- rollback admin command also in case of fatal error.
- Split _ma_set_trn_for_table() to three version to simplify code
  and debugging.
- Several new asserts to detect the original problem (that file was
  not properly removed from trn before calling ma_close())

- Not documented on intened usage
- Extra checking takes time for all HASH usage

Implementation of MDEV-7660 introduced unwanted incompatible change:
modifications under LOCK TABLES with autocommit enabled are rolled back on
disconnect. Previously everything was committed, because LOCK TABLES didn't
adjust autocommit setting.

This patch restores original behavior by reverting some changes done in
MDEV-7660:
- sql/sql_parse.cc: do not reset autocommit on LOCK TABLES
- sql/sql_base.cc: do not set autocommit on UNLOCK TABLES
- test cases: main.lock_tables_lost_commit, main.partition_explicit_prune,
  rpl.rpl_switch_stm_row_mixed, tokudb.nested_txn_implicit_commit,
  tokudb_bugs.db806

But it makes InnoDB tables under LOCK TABLES ... READ [LOCAL] not protected
against DML. To restore protection some changes from WL#6671 were merged,
specifically MDL_SHARED_READ_ONLY and test cases.

WL#6671 merge highlights:
- Not all tests merged.
- In MySQL LOCK TABLES ... READ acquires MDL_SHARED_READ_ONLY for all engines,
  in MariaDB MDL_SHARED_READ is always acquired first and then upgraded to
  MDL_SHARED_READ_ONLY for InnoDB only.
- The above allows us to omit MDL_SHARED_WRITE_LOW_PRIO implementation in
  MariaDB, which is rather useless with InnoDB. In MySQL it is needed to
  preserve locking behavior between low priority writes and LOCK TABLES ... READ
  for non-InnoDB engines (covered by sys_vars.sql_low_priority_updates_func).
- Omitted HA_NO_READ_LOCAL_LOCK, we rely on lock_count() instead.
- Omitted "piglets": in MariaDB stream of DML against InnoDB table may lead to
  concurrent LOCK TABLES ... READ starvation.
- HANDLER ... OPEN acquires MDL_SHARED_READ instead of MDL_SHARED in MariaDB.
- Omitted SNRW->X MDL lock upgrade for IMPORT/DISCARD TABLESPAECE under LOCK
  TABLES.
- Omitted strong locks for views, triggers and SP under LOCK TABLES.
- Omitted IX schema lock for LOCK TABLES READ.
- Omitted deadlock weight juggling for LOCK TABLES.

Full WL#6671 merge status:
- innodb.innodb-lock: fully merged
- main.alter_table: not merged due to different HANDLER solution
- main.debug_sync: fully merged
- main.handler_innodb: not merged due to different HANDLER solution
- main.handler_myisam: not merged due to different HANDLER solution
- main.innodb_mysql_lock: fully merged
- main.insert_notembedded: fully merged
- main.lock: not merged (due to no strong locks for views)
- main.lock_multi: not merged
- main.lock_sync: fully merged (partially in MDEV-7660)
- main.mdl_sync: not merged
- main.partition_debug_sync: not merged due to different HANDLER solution
- main.status: fully merged
- main.view: fully merged
- perfschema.mdl_func: not merged (no such test in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_global_2u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_global_2u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_global_4u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_global_4u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_hist_2u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_hist_2u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_hist_4u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_hist_4u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_thread_2u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_thread_2u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_thread_4u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_aggregate_thread_4u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_global_2u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_global_2u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_global_4u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_global_4u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_hist_2u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_hist_2u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_hist_4u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_hist_4u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_thread_2u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_thread_2u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_thread_4u_2t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- perfschema.table_lock_aggregate_thread_4u_3t: not merged (didn't fail in MariaDB)
- sys_vars.sql_low_priority_updates_func: not merged
- include/thr_rwlock.h: not merged, rw_pr_lock_assert_write_owner and
  rw_pr_lock_assert_not_write_owner are macros in MariaDB
- sql/handler.h: not merged (HA_NO_READ_LOCAL_LOCK)
- sql/mdl.cc: partially merged (MDL_SHARED_READ_ONLY only)
- sql/mdl.h: partially merged (MDL_SHARED_READ_ONLY only)
- sql/lock.cc: fully merged
- sql/sp_head.cc: not merged
- sql/sp_head.h: not merged
- sql/sql_base.cc: partially merged (MDL_SHARED_READ_ONLY only)
- sql/sql_base.h: not merged
- sql/sql_class.cc: fully merged
- sql/sql_class.h: fully merged
- sql/sql_handler.cc: merged partially (different solution in MariaDB)
- sql/sql_parse.cc: partially merged, mostly omitted low priority write part
- sql/sql_reload.cc: not merged comment change
- sql/sql_table.cc: not merged SNRW->X upgrade for IMPORT/DISCARD TABLESPACE
- sql/sql_view.cc: not merged
- sql/sql_yacc.yy: not merged (MDL_SHARED_WRITE_LOW_PRIO, MDL_SHARED_READ_ONLY)
- sql/table.cc: not merged (MDL_SHARED_WRITE_LOW_PRIO)
- sql/table.h: not merged (MDL_SHARED_WRITE_LOW_PRIO)
- sql/trigger.cc: not merged
- storage/innobase/handler/ha_innodb.cc: merged store_lock()/lock_count()
  changes (in MDEV-7660), didn't merge HA_NO_READ_LOCAL_LOCK
- storage/innobase/handler/ha_innodb.h: fully merged in MDEV-7660
- storage/myisammrg/ha_myisammrg.cc: not merged comment change
- storage/perfschema/table_helper.cc: not merged (no MDL support in MariaDB PFS)
- unittest/gunit/mdl-t.cc: not merged
- unittest/gunit/mdl_sync-t.cc: not merged

MariaDB specific changes:
- handler.heap: different HANDLER solution, MDEV-7660
- handler.innodb: different HANDLER solution, MDEV-7660
- handler.interface: different HANDLER solution, MDEV-7660
- handler.myisam: different HANDLER solution, MDEV-7660
- main.mdl_sync: MDEV-7660 specific changes
- main.partition_debug_sync: removed test due to different HANDLER solution,
  MDEV-7660
- main.truncate_coverage: removed test due to different HANDLER solution,
  MDEV-7660
- mysql-test/include/mtr_warnings.sql: additional cleanup, MDEV-7660
- mysql-test/lib/v1/mtr_report.pl: additional cleanup, MDEV-7660
- plugin/metadata_lock_info/metadata_lock_info.cc: not in MySQL
- sql/sql_handler.cc: MariaDB specific fix for mysql_ha_read(), MDEV-7660

This fixes a bug where handler::read_range_first (for example)
needed to compare vcol values that were not calculated yet.

As a bonus it fixes few cases where vcols were calculated twice