* provide an argument to the callback
* don't ignore a callback request if it's already present in the queue
* initialize mutex/cond/in_use flag before starting the thread,
  in case the first callback queueing request arrives before
  handle_manager had time to initialize
* set/check abort_manager under a mutex, otherwise handle_manager
  thread might destroy LOCK_manager before stop_handle_manager
  released it
* signal COND on queueing a callback, stop cond_wait on callback request
* always start the thread, even if flush_time is 0
* but keep the old behavior in embedded (no replication, no galera)
* style cleanups (e.g. remove volatile for a variable protected by a mutex)

* Update wrong zip-code

- Fix win64 pointer truncation warnings
(usually coming from misusing 0x%lx and long cast in DBUG)

- Also fix printf-format warnings

Make the above mentioned warnings fatal.

- fix pthread_join on Windows to set return value.

- Added sql/mariadb.h file that should be included first by files in sql
  directory, if sql_plugin.h is not used (sql_plugin.h adds SHOW variables
  that must be done before my_global.h is included)
- Removed a lot of include my_global.h from include files
- Removed include's of some files that my_global.h automatically includes
- Removed duplicated include's of my_sys.h
- Replaced include my_config.h with my_global.h