arguments; [ticket:2866]
- add dialect specific kwarg functionality to ForeignKeyConstraint, ForeignKey

now can accomodate additional information about the "reason" for
the exception; the :class:`.Session` now adds some detail to it
when the exception occurs within an autoflush.  This approach
is taken as opposed to combining :class:`.FlushError` with
a Python 3 style "chained exception" approach so as to maintain
compatibility both with Py2K code as well as code that already
catches ``IntegrityError`` or similar.

form of a some expressions when referring to the ``.c`` collection
on a ``select()`` construct, but the ``str()`` form isn't available
since the element relies on dialect-specific compilation constructs,
notably the ``__getitem__()`` operator as used with a Postgresql
``ARRAY`` element.  The fix also adds a new exception class
:class:`.UnsupportedCompilationError` which is raised in those cases
where a compiler is asked to compile something it doesn't know
how to.  Also in 0.8.3.
[ticket:2780]

- went through examples/ and cleaned out excess list() calls