- fix "temporary_tables" requirement

:meth:`.Inspector.get_temp_view_names`; currently, only the
SQLite dialect supports these methods.    The return of temporary
table and view names has been **removed** from SQLite's version
of :meth:`.Inspector.get_table_names` and
:meth:`.Inspector.get_view_names`; other database backends cannot
support this information (such as MySQL), and the scope of operation
is different in that the tables can be local to a session and
typically aren't supported in remote schemas.
fixes #3204

simplify tox again now that we can exclude tests more easily

rules, better message formatting

sqlalchemy/orm, sqlalchemy/event, sqlalchemy/testing

to get all flake8 passing

- implement for SQL server, use window functions when simple limit/offset not available

Found using: https://github.com/intgr/topy

it for DELETE would fail to target the correct row for DELETE.
Then to compound matters, basic "number of rows matched" checks were
not being performed.  Both issues are fixed, however note that the
"rows matched" check requires so-called "sane multi-row count"
functionality; the DBAPI's executemany() method must count up the
rows matched by individual statements and SQLAlchemy's dialect must
mark this feature as supported, currently applies to some mysql dialects,
psycopg2, sqlite only. fixes #3006
- Enabled "sane multi-row count" checking for the psycopg2 DBAPI, as
this seems to be supported as of psycopg2 2.0.9.